“Six Verbs That Make You Sound Weak”

I came across an article this morning titled “Six Verbs That Make You Sound Weak.”

I’m curious what you think.

While I do believe language and choice of words make an impact on how others see you, and while the article is very well written and has value, I’m not sure I agree with all the points made.

For instance, the article word “want” is said to ‘make the speaker seem to be lacking in some way.’ “I want you to improve the quality of your work,” that statement suggests the boss is not getting what she wants–which maybe she isn’t. But the better way to get what you want is to simply set forth facts: “Your work on this report needs to be higher quality.” That puts the onus on the employee.‘ To me it seems the latter statement might put the employee on the defensive. It could be construed as bossy. The employee might develop a resentment which would probably negatively impact the relationship.

The article also mentions that the word ‘need’ “conjures up a feeling of dependency on the part of the speaker, rather than of obligation and responsibility on the part of the team.” I see the word ‘need’ as saying…well…something is needed. Is there really something wrong with saying “I need you write this report for me”? In my mind its simply conveying that the task needs to be completed.

Again, the article is well written and some of the points have great value, I question these two points.

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